Get Ex Wife Back - The One Thing You Must Avoid If You Want to Get Your Ex Wife Back

I'll bet your scenario look something like this... you either are going through a divorce, or your divorce has recently been finalized.

Once in awhile, people manage to get through a divorce amicably. But usually, divorces are messy. They usually involve fighting over stuff, over kids, or over animals. These fights can be bitter and nasty. Your already deteriorating relationship becomes even worse.

If this is you, you may think there is no hope to get your ex wife back.

Why there is hope to get your ex wife back.

Your ex-wife married you for a reason. She probably loved you then, and she may even still love you now. Maybe, she just feels like you can't be with you anymore. She may feel unappreciated, and unloved.

The reality is, no matter what she has told you, the real reason she left the relationship is most likely because she felt unappreciated. This is what women crave more than anything else.

If you can show her that she is appreciated and loved and valued, you have a good chance of stopping a divorce, or even reconciling after a divorce. This is true, no matter what the reason of the breakup. Even if there was infidelity involved, if you can make her feel valued, appreciated, and loved there is hope.

The one thing you must not do.

When a breakup occurs, feelings of desperation and panic set in. It is absolutely normal and natural for you to engage in behaviors that stem from feeling desperate, alone, and panicked.

These behaviors may take the form of: drunk dialing (you don't have to be drunk to do this), text message terrorism, and "surprise visits" (which everyone really knows are not actually a surprise). While these behaviors are natural, they do not help. The one thing you must not do when you're trying to get your ex-wife back, is engage in these kind of behaviors.

If you are to have, stop, right now. What you need to do instead, is not contact your ex-wife.

I understand that some of you may be in joint custody situations, where you are forced to be in contact with your ex-wife on a regular basis.

If this is the case, your strategy needs to be politeness. You don't do anything more, or anything less. Otherwise, for now don't contact her. This will make her curious, and more receptive, when you do contact her. It will give you the best chance to get your ex-wife back.

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Heather Hallman writes about relationships, and has been studied what makes relationships work for 15 years.